#MEETMYTYPES: 5 Reasons He Won't Commit!

1. His Purpose. Some men have a sense of fulfilling a destiny that benefits the greater good of the world. It is this purpose that makes this brother happy, so they commit to that purpose and that purpose alone. This doesn’t mean that they don’t want you in their life – it just means their purpose is more important to them. Locking down oneself into a relationship simply isn’t on this brothers M.O. Flexibility, flow and freedom for continual growth form the mantra of this conscious fellow. He lives by the concept of unattached giving and will just as freely move on as he will give of himself.​

2. His Fears. Fear of responsibility or the reliving of past emotional trauma are some of the biggest blockages that are stopping your guy from making a solid commitment. In this case, he simply isn’t ready and may have to be left alone to deal with his concerns. Some women may provide the nurturing support that can ‘raise’ this man, while other women are simply not equipped or experienced enough to guide their man out of his own trenches. It’s okay. If it’s not this man’s time to be with you, it could be someone else’s, but if you make the mistake of holding on because of your own fears, then be prepared to get stuck in an emotional trench of your own making.

3. His Likes. There’s no nice way of putting this. He’s not into you. Sure, he has sex with you, and eats what you cook and wears the clothes you buy him, but which man off the street wouldn’t do that if you offered it? The question is, is he committed to building a future with you. What you need to be looking for are signs of him giving back. Does he talk about the future with you or include you in his plans? Does he try to form true emotional bridges or does he dodge intimacy? The highest forms of love are mental. If he’s not sharing his mind, you haven’t got him. If this is happening to you, you may have to rethink about who you invest your time, food, money and emotions into.​

4. His Decision. Women choose their men, but men choose the type of relationship. Many men make up their minds early about the type of relationship they want with you. If your guy has already decided the relationship type and spoken about it, then he’s probably watching and waiting to see your response and if you are truly feeling his vision. This is actually good. He’s not trying to trap you into commitment. Rather, he is waiting to see if you feel as good as he does about the way he wants the both of you to relate to each other. If you don’t, then you’ll both be free to walk away. No harm, no foul.

5. His Comfort. This ties into number three in a lot of ways. He’s not committing because you are not making him think about it. You’re sleeping with him, housing him, cooking for him, praying for him; why does he need to commit, you’re already giving him the premium package! There has to come a point when you as a woman have to value your own contributions and know what you are getting back in return simply isn’t enough. This doesn’t mean you make every guy you meet sign on the dotted line, but it does mean accepting the men in your life for who and what they are. Being realistic like this will stop you from expecting committed returns on every investment you make. So you either limit your investment to stop the hurt, or start picking a better stock of man – which can take more time, but gives returns like no other.

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